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Sana-chan
October 9th, 2007, 09:50 PM
[Thought I would update everyone]

I got my job with a school district a couple months ago.

Then I decided that I really am not happy here. Living in my parent's house and having to live up to their expectations.
I quit smoking for my parents.
But ya know, I think it's for the best anyway.
I haven't had a cigarette for a few months now. Though I have a pack in my car >.>.

I came home from Santa Cruz and went to the dentist for the first time in two years. Turns out I have four cavities.. Yes. four. I am scared to death for these are my first four.

The drilling and all that. But I figure if I can get a needle shoved through my lip...I can get this done too. Maturely. So I have that appointment next week to take care of the first two cavities.

I'm in a love/hate relationship with my job though.

I hate it so much because it's what my mom wanted me to do. But in reality, all the other jobs I applied for here in Sacramento never called me back or were not hiring. I needed money though because I owe my parents for paying for my trip to Texas.

I love my job because I love working with children. Specifically the younger ones. (K-6th).

I was working a long term job for a bit, and I'm supposed to still be there but I could not handle the lack of discipline there.

A seventh grader went to the bathroom and came back a few minutes later with a lip ring. For the two weeks I was there, the teachers never noticed.

Yes, I do realize I should have done something about it, but remember. I'm only a Substitute for TAs. I'm not a real teacher so there wasn't much I could do.

Next topic:

I have been in a lot of relationships. But only two separate ones was I engaged.

One when I was a sophomore in high school and then the next one while I was a junior and senior in high school.

Of course, young love. I thought nothing bad would ever happen. Hah. Boy was I wrong. My second last relationship I was in lasted almost two and a half years. I broke up with him because I moved to Santa Cruz. Well, long story short, I didn't see the signs before it was too late and I was pretty much taken advantage of, as usual.


My current relationship though is amazing so far.
I dated Mike back when I was a Freshman in high school. Well of course, I've matured a lot since then and my knowledge has expanded a lot.

I learned from my mistakes etc.

Well I am with him now and today is actually two months for us =].
I will be moving in with him on October 27th.
But this time I am moving right.
I talked with my parents about it and they agreed. My mom even bought my ticket for me!
I have already talked with Mike about if it doesn't work out. If it doesn't work out then I will be moving back to California and going back to school.

But if it works out like I am hoping for, I will be going back to college there. I will be attending Austin Community College.

I am so excited about this and proud of myself that I am actually going through the motions correctly.
Oh! I am also not quitting my job here. My mom said I could tell my boss that I will be going on an unknown time lined vacation to visit family in Texas and that I will call them when I return. But if it works out call in and say I will not be returning.

I do apologize that this is so long.

But, I felt that i should update everyone on my life because.. Well, it's been rotten for a long time.

I feel like me again. Before all the meds and everything.

=]



EDIT: Also, I am finally pursuing something I love! Singing! Two of my friends are going to be teaching me how to play guitar and one is letting me join his band as lead singer!

=]

Vincent
October 9th, 2007, 09:56 PM
I'm proud for you :) Always keep a positive attitude!

Sana-chan
October 9th, 2007, 09:58 PM
=] Thanks.
I've been trying to recently.
I mean, don't get me wrong. My parents are still very hard to live with.
Hence why I'm moving out.

Mathias
October 9th, 2007, 10:25 PM
I'm glad to here you're taking control and responsibility for your life. I'm extremely pleased that you took precautions and setup contingency plans in case life in Texas doesn't work out. Keep up the good work!

HKofsesshoumaru
October 12th, 2007, 01:21 AM
I am so excited and happy for you! Thank for the update!